Friday, 16 January 2015

...walking in the snow

This morning was the first time we've had proper snow since Oscar came to live with us, and since I'm on back shift today, I got to take him out in actual daylight. It snowed quite heavily, and watching him run about and have a play with other dogs in it was lovely.

Sunday, 11 January 2015

...making the best of the bleak mid-winter

So, after a 2014 filled with glorious summer and autumn and a mild start to winter, the second week in 2015 has brought full pelt storms - rain, sleet, snow, and brutal, Gale force winds. This week, I have pretty much being getting to and from the places I need to be as quickly (and dryly) as possible, and then getting home where it's cosy and warm. That's when I'm not walking the dog in the tipping rain, obviously.

With the horrible weather - the true bleak mid-winter - has come a need for hearty soups and stews. We've eaten well*, we've kept on top of housework, we've watched many, many episodes of Friends (Dave found them on Netflix), finished watching Derek (the second season is pretty brutal in places, but also so funny), and I've started back at college and am on top of college work and enjoying the course. I've managed to fit in a bit of non-academic reading too, including keeping on top of blogs.

*I concur with Hannah of Seeds and Stitches on this one - here's her take - The Case Against the New Year Diet.

Some other posts I've enjoyed this week...
+ Dave has taken to writing again. His post on recent events in France say what I think, much better than I could.
+TYCI Blog's Trailblazers post on Alanis Morrisette
+The return of Serena to the blogosphere was to my great delight. I've always loved her writing, and this foray into smart, hilarious political commentary does not disappoint. Her most recent post is about the beginnings of the General Election campaign.
+And because it's topical (in Hughesville) and funny, Aparentment Therapy's 10 Decorating Lessons to learn from Friends

I hope everyone else is surviving!!

Sunday, 4 January 2015

...ready for a New Year (a festive catch-up)


Today is the last day of nine days off for me. I haven't has a long run of days off since June, and they were needed.

I worked Christmas Day and Boxing Day this year, for the first time in 8 years. Around my shift on Christmas day, we visited family, exchanged presents, ate, drank and were merry. This is our first Christmas with Oscar, and there were presents for him too. I received an absolutely beautiful Kenwood Patissier mixer. Dave cooked dinner while I was at work, and it was perfect and delicious. On boxing day, I did an early shift, came home early afternoon for Christmas leftover sandwiches, tea and beer. In the evening more family visiting, and a trip to the pub with friends.

The following nine days of holiday were glorious. A weekend of eating leftover Christmas food, watching Christmas telly, easy cooking and magazine reading. A day spent with the kids I used to look after, and one spent having lunch, drinking cocktails, and laughing a lot with my two BFFs from home. A trip to Wales to see Dave's dad and step-mum - wood fires, Hogmanay visitors, food, helping a bit on the farm and a lovely (if rainy) New Years Day walk in the welsh hills. Yesterday, a day spent in the house doing a bit of organising, and then an evening at our friends' eating a delicious meal of roast lamb and a brilliant cheese board   and chatting till quite late. And today. my last day of holiday, spent mostly in one place, on the sofa, drinking pots of tea, reading, and snuggling with Oscar while Dave does copious amounts of writing for work.






I can get very caught up in life. 2014 has passed in a blur of work and college and there have been times when I have felt quite overwhelmed. But among this have been lots of evenings and days like the ones I've just described. and there have been weddings and birthday and achievements to e celebrated. Oscar has been an amazing addition to our lives, and we have always had food and shelter and heat and entertainment. There is a lot to be grateful for - an awful lot. And that is what Ill carry with me in this new year.
As so, tomorrow for all intents and purposes, 2015 really begins. Lets see what it holds...

Thursday, 11 December 2014

...a Secret Santa again (Recipe post - Mince Pie Tiffin)

As I mentioned in my last post, part of Blogging Six Christmas (yup, that's what we call it!) is a Secret Santa swap. Each person buys a gift and also makes something. When it comes to making presents food is my go-to thing.

My gift recipient was Becca, and I made her spiced caramel sauce (basically Nigella's salted caramel sauce, with booze and spices in instead of salt), Black Forest Truffles, and this festive take on a traditional tiffin -Mince Pie Tiffin. I used shortbread to give the sweet pastry flavour and keep a bit of crunch, and mincemeat instead of raisins. Its easy, mostly stirring, and it is ready to go in about three hours. It is also friggin delicious.

for the base

225g good quality milk chocolate
2tbsp butter
2tsp golden syrup
200g shortbread, crushed
150g mincemeat

for the topping

100g milk chocolate
2tbsp golden syrup
sprinkles to decorate (optional)


  • Line a loaf tin with grease proof paper
  • to make the base, put the chocolate, syrup and butter in a pot, heat over a low heat till melted, stirring frequently to combine
  • add crushed shortbread
  • add mincemeat is 1/2tsp sized blobs
  • stir to combine
  • tip into loaf tin and spread till the top is even.
  • Put in the fridge to chill for two hours
  • it will firm up and hold shape, but be a little squidgy (like soft fudge).
  • melt the chocolate and syrup for the topping in a pot, and pour over the base, spreading to coat evenly.
  • Add sprinkles if you wish
  • chill for an hour

This can be sliced with a sharp knife, and will keep for about a week if wrapped in greaseproof paper in an airtight tin. It wont last a week though!

Monday, 8 December 2014

... feeling festive - Christmas Trees and Afternoon Tea.

Sideboard - The Christmas Edition.
As of last year, with the sad collapse of our trusty John Lewis Christmas tree , Dave and I have started getting a small, potted tree. My mum's tradition, which I've continued, is to put the tree and decorations up on December 1st, but with a real tree that's pushing it a bit. The compromise is that now, I decorate the house on the 1st, and we get a tree the Saturday or Sunday after. This past week, I decorated on the morning of the first, and up went our advent calendar, which is now in it's 20th year of use, and then i spent every night finishing off my last college assessment before Christmas so that I could enjoy the weekend, my weekend off, college work free.
Festive Afternoon Tea  - tier 1 of 3!!
The festivities began on Saturday, when I met four of the other Blogging Six girls (Zoe was in London, but there very much in spirit, and in gift, though that's a story for Gaynor to tell if she wishes!), and we spent the afternoon in Glasgow, first in Tinderbox  and then in Cup Tea Lounge, having their amazing Festive afternoon tea. D'you know what improves and already pretty spectacular afternoon tea (rolls, scones, ganache, fruitcake, shortbread and cupcakes are the 'standard' tea)? Mince pies and mulled cider. There was so much we all went home with cakes in boxes. We had our traditional Secret Santa gift swap, and I received a new teapot with the most beautiful hand knitted cover from R. We had such a good catchup, and I headed home full of food and cheer, and fuzzy feelings, where Dave and I watched the first two Back to the Futures (not your transitional Christmas films, but quite nostalgic!)
My teapot, with it's lovely cover
On Sunday after a now (almost non existent) lie-in (having a dog has scuppered those), Dave and I went to get our Christmas Tree. In case people have images of us going somewhere quaint, I feel I should point out it's from B&Q. We brought it home, I fashioned a stand for it from a crate, and after letting Oscar sniff it for a bit (he wees on the one outside so I was a tad worried we'd have an issue there), I put the fairy lights on, and waited for darkness to decorate the tree.
The Boys in my life.
My Dickens Print from G, alnongside some new paperchains
The only bit of tree decorating Dave really likes doing is putting the star on the top, so while he and Oscar has a Sunday afternoon snooze, I put on a Christmas episode of Frasier, and decorated the tree. This is my very favourite bit of decorating, finding just the right space for each decoration. We've amassed a lovely collection. All have sentimental value - my mum's decorations, gifts from Dave's parents and my sister, ones from friends. After Dave had done his yearly duty of adding the star to the tree, we ordered takeaway, and watched Back to the Future 3, and Home Alone, stretching my weekend off as long as possible.


TREE!!

Wednesday, 26 November 2014

...wintering (November)

November has passed in a blur of work, college assignments,dog walks, and the odd gig or job interview (unfortunately unsuccessful, but there you go). I can almost see the finish line with regards to college - I have an assignment due in a little over a week, and then on to my last two modules.

The dog walks are increasingly done almost always in the dark, though today I was off work and have taken Oscar for a giant walk and game of fetch despite it being 1c outside. Speaking of Oscar, I am very please to say he's been featured in The Simple Things December issue, as one of their Dogs in Blankets. He really is just the cutest wee dog!
My wee pooch!


A cold, wintery day at Westferry

Not that Oscar minds. He loves jumping.


Interview ready.
Dave has a new recording majig, there've been a lot of new songs this month!

Cold morning walk, skeletal trees

Vinyl from a recent gig.

Currently reading these short stories one or two at a time..

Looking forward, I cant wait to get my assignment handed in and get properly into the festive spirit. There has been a small Christmas craft, a couple of mince pies and a Christmas episode of Frasier today. So it begins...

Wednesday, 5 November 2014

...remembers

My mum died 11 years ago today, on her second favourite day of the year.

This morning, my aunt Ina wrote about her relationship with my mum - as a sister and as her best friend. And it made me think about memories, and how people come with us. I'm an atheist, so I don't believe my mum is with us in a spiritual sense, but what I do believe is that people are carried on in how they impact on other people's lives, and how they are remembered.

Our mum, along with Ina, gave Hazel and I an example of how our relationship should be, and I am greatful for it, because I could not ask for a better sister.

She was our champion. Other than if I'd done something particularly bad, I can't remember her ever saying anything negative to me. I was supported in everything I set my mind to and told firmly I could do anything. I think a large bit of the successes in life Hazel and I have had comes from this encouragement.

She loved us, and our family and our friends fiercely. When I say I was 21 when mum died, people tend to say it's a shame, I was young. But while I'd love to still have her and I miss her every day, I feel lucky for having her for those years, because I was loved for every minute of them.

She saw the best in everyone and was intellegent and kind and warm and funny.
Being honest, she was also bloody stubborn, which is a trait I got. But it also meant she did not give up, and I don't generally either.

That, I think is my mum's legacy; a family who adored and miss her, children who support each other, have self-belief and try to live by her example, and lots of people who have memories and tell stories of a warm, funny, compassionate person.